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 “BPC Cares” Memorial Service for Tsunami Victims

 

A table/altar is set with 2 vases filled with flowers and an empty basket in the center.  There are 2 music stands/podiums with microphones.

 

MUSIC:

Prayer: “A Multi-Cultural Journey of Spirit” ... until everyone is seated.

 

INTRODUCTION:

ROSALIE

 

 

 

WELCOME:

JOANNA

We come together tonight, as part of “Battery Park City Cares” and as members of our global community, to honor the memory of all the souls who left this planet in the December 26th tsunami. We hope that our hearts will begin to know what our minds cannot understand – that death is but a gateway to the infinite source of life. We may find some comfort in the awareness that many of these people held very strong beliefs about life after death.

SPEAKER 1

Krishna teaches in the Bhagavad Gita that “That which is non-existent can never come into being, and that which is can never cease to be. “

SPEAKER 2

The Buddha’s last words were. “Impermanent are all formations. Observe this carefully, constantly.” 

ROBIN

The Qur’an states that the believers shall have a blissful end. “They shall enter the gardens of Eden, together with the righteous … From every gate the angels will come to them, saying: “Peace be to you for all that you have steadfastly endured. Blessed is the reward of Paradise.”  

LEE

The very beautiful and well known Christian Prayer of Saint Francis ends with this thought: “ .. For it is in giving that we receive, it is in pardoning that we are pardoned, and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.”

SETH

In Judaism we say, Ba-ruch atta, HaShem, no–tay-a b’to-cheinu chayei olam – We praise You, O G_d, who places within us eternal life.

 

JOANNA

And of course, included in all of these words is the knowledge that the belief in Spirit in any form, Nature, Art, Science ... Love, lives on.

All of these words have helped us get through times of loss and pain. But the words that keep coming up for me are: “Out of the darkness, comes the light.” Out of this tsunami? This most devastating catastrophe? This unbelievable darkness? Where is the light?

Marianne Williamson and Kofi Annan among others, point out that the spontaneous, authentic outpouring of concern and love from all over the world is the light. The tsunami woke us up. Shook our very souls while we were literally “on vacation.” For many of us it pushed all of our meaningless pre-occupations aside and allowed us to focus on what is really meaningful in our lives. Maybe we hugged our kids a little tighter, a little longer, maybe we reached out to a friend, took a little time to say I love you, let our lovers, partners or spouses know how appreciated they are. Maybe we connected on a deeper level with a parent, gave our pets an extra treat. In so many ways there was a deepening of commitment, a more conscious expression of love and a greater appreciation for life.

Their deaths, the devastation of their homes, their places of work, their farms, their fishing boats, their pets, the wipe-out of an entire Island have great meaning for this planet. They have awakened the world to the fragility and the sanctity of all life. They have awakened the world to the fact that there are catastrophes happening at this time all over this world, genocide in Sudan, AIDS in Africa, the killing and maiming in Iraq. The tsunami victims won’t have died in vain if, all over the world, communities like ours stay awake and turn our grief into action wherever there is pain and suffering.

So we bless this opportunity for our community to grow in consciousness, compassion, wisdom. To once again be reminded not to take anything or anyone for granted. To come together to put all of this feeling and commitment into meaningful action. To expand into a greater expression of what it means for our community to be a dynamic part of the world community.

         

And now I invite you to listen to the words of the Sufi poet, Rumi … in song.

MUSIC:  (start at #2 :20, fade after lyric “… make sense”)

 

The Field – Rumi

          Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,

          There is a field. I’ll meet you there.

          When the soul lies down in that grass,

          The world is too full to talk about.

Ideas, language, even the phrase each other

Doesn’t make sense.       

 

Joanna introduces Morgan and the Poem by Mattie Stepanek, written when he was 9 years old.

 

POEM

 

Believing for the Journey

 

Every day,

Everyone in the world

Should do at least

One thing nice for others.

Doing so can help each person

Believe in himself or herself

More fully, and

Give confidence that may

Inspire each person

To do more and

More new and good things

For the self,

For others, and

For the world.

Those positive attitudes

And actions

Can be the first of many steps

Towards the journey

For world peace.

And world peace,

Harmony, and

Confidence are essential

For our future.

 

FLOWER CEREMONY:

 

MUSIC UNDER: The Gyoto Monks – Chants from the Top of the World

#2 for Gaia (Philip Glass, Mickey Hart, Kitaro) Band 3  

Deborah leads flower meditation with group of 15 people: men, women, children.

 

DEBORAH

As I read the names and the number of people lost, one person at a time please come forward and place a flower into the basket. After each flower is placed, let us all take a deep breath, feel free to close your eyes or not, and send healing energy, love, a message, or simply send those people a thought. (After each one or as needed, Deborah repeats the direction.)

 

Andaman and Nicobar Islands - 1,316 dead.

Bangladesh – 2.

Burma – 200.

India: 10,749 dead; 5,640 missing --

Indonesia: dead at 97,636, with 132,197 missing.

Sri Lanka: 29,854 dead, 6,007 people missing, 100,000 families displaced.

The Mulativu district of Sri Lanka, which is entirely under rebel control reports 1,932 dead with another 1,000 missing.

Thailand: 5,313 dead, 3,396 missing or presumed dead.

Somalia: 150 dead.

Maldives: 82 dead, 26 missing.

Malaysia: 68 dead, 6 missing.

Myanmar: 59 dead.

Tanzania: 10 dead.

Kenya: 1 dead.

Seychelles: 3 dead.

The remaining flowers represent the tourists and missing loved ones from all other parts of the world who perished that day, including Sweden, Finland, Germany, Great Britain, United States, Canada, Israel, Norway.

 

READING: Child invites participants to come up to the mike, introduces the prayer and directs the audience to the responses in the program..

 

Children & Hallmark residents / Audience response

SPEAKER 1

In the rising of the sun and in its going down.

we remember them.

SPEAKER 2

In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 3

In the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 4

In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 5

In the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 6

In the beginning of the year and when it ends,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 7

When we are weary and in need of strength.

we remember them.

SPEAKER 8

When we are lost and sick at heart,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 9

When we have joys we yearn to share,

we remember them.

SPEAKER 10

So long as we live, they too shall live, for they are

now a part of us, as we remember them.

 

POEM

          NINFA introduces and reads:

A Spark From Within-tsunami
by Eileen Tiger Lily
Written on Tuesday, January 04, 2005

The night covered the ocean with a canopy of sparkling stars

palm trees swayed as a gentle zephyr played among the waves

two lovers stared out to sea amazed that it was the same

water that rose up to destroy so much of the life and land

they knew and loved so deeply arms around each other they

raised their heads to the sky and said a prayer for help that

their island could be restored and people find a way to go

on with their lives with some faith that there was a reason to go on

there was peace all around them as their hearts beat with anguish

knowing the huge task that lie ahead with everything in rubble the peace

seemed like it was taunting them nothing made sense, yet a spark

from a spirit within, gave them hope

 

Someone introduces song and invites everyone to sing along.

MUSIC:

                    “What the World Needs Now”

What The World Needs Now Is Love

 

by Burt Bacharach

 

What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love,
No not just for some but for everyone.

Lord, we don’t need another mountain,
There are mountains and hillsides enough to climb
There are oceans and rivers enough to cross,
Enough to last till the end of time.

What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love,
No, not just for some but for everyone.

Lord, we don’t need another meadow
There are cornfields and wheat fields enough to grow
There are sunbeams and moonbeams enough to shine
Oh listen, lord, if you want to know.

What the world needs now is love, sweet love
It’s the only thing that there’s just too little of
What the world needs now is love, sweet love,
No, not just for some but for everyone.
No, not just for some, oh, but just for everyone

 

CLOSING:

And so tonight we hold these dear souls in consciousness, and reach out in spirit to their loved ones, to offer whatever support we can in their time of grief. We wish them the strength and courage to move through their sadness and reconcile their loss. May the Peace that passes all understanding, fill our minds and hearts, and extend from us to bless the world with peace. And so it is.

 

As participants gather for fellowship …

 

MUSIC:

          Taneen: Sufi Music Ensemble – “Divine Breath; Into Ecstacy”

 


 
 
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